I have been practicing as a psychotherapist, service leader, and social worker for over 27 years. I have worked with children and adults coping with both trauma wounds and ADHD. If you are an adult or a parent/carer reading this article/blog today and you or your child have experienced trauma and/or attachment wounds this is for you.
Complex Trauma (C-PTSD) or PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) is a diagnosable condition, but there are factors to assess to see whether you meet the criteria. The American Psychiatric Association (APA) revised the diagnostic criteria for PTSD in the fifth edition of its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) in 2013. The criteria for PTSD in the DSM-5 include:
This can include directly experiencing the trauma, witnessing it, or learning that a close friend or relative was exposed to it. Examples include a persons experience of a traumatic car accident, being sexually or physically assaulted, hearing about a close loved ones traumatic experience, having grief or birth trauma, or experiencing childhood physical, sexual or emotional traumas.
This can include recurrent memories, nightmares, dissociative reactions, or prolonged psychological distress, usually impacting several areas of their daily life.
This can include hypervigilance, sleep disturbances, or aggressive, reckless, or self-destructive behavior.
This can include avoiding distressing memories, thoughts, or reminders of the event.
This can include persistent negative beliefs, distorted blame, or trauma-related emotions.
This can include irritable behavior, angry outbursts, problems with concentration, or an exaggerated startle response. It is often difficult for educators to determine whether the child in school is disruptive due to trauma, having ADHD or another neurodevelopmental feature in their presentation or is oppositionally defiant. In my experience, it is best to have your child assessment by mental health and/or neurodevelopmental experts that can help your child manoeuvre the educational setting.
ADHD is a Neurobiological Developmental Disorder, meaning it’s related to the brain, runs in families, and impacts a child’s development and ability to learn. 1 in 20 children are diagnosed with ADHD at some point in their lives.
The main symptoms include impulsivity, hyperactivity, distractibility, poor concentration, racing thoughts and emotional reactivity. Interestingly, these symptoms can also be seen in chronic hyper-arousal after trauma.
Below highlights the overlap between symptoms:
Personally, I am also a mother whose child suffered trauma and has ADHD. He has familial links to ADHD through my side of the family. I also have ADHD. I struggled with giving my child “labels” when he was young and noticed my feelings of guilt for him having to suffer in this way. Although he had challenges as a young person, he has thrived later in life. Not all young people are so lucky, and many adults I treat are still not able to manage the remnants of having both ADHD and complex trauma. It is true that often parents will under-report trauma due to fear of blame, shame and guilt. Teachers, GP’s/doctors, and mental health or other clinicians do not always ask the right questions to fully understand the persons presentation. Complex trauma is misdiagnosed as ADHD due to the significant overlap between presentations, however it is very possible that the individual could have both. It is a known fact that children who experienced trauma and/or attachment wounds as child have more severe ADHD symptoms if they have this diagnosis.
Dr Samuele Cortese, psychiatrist, (Solent NHS, and Southampton University) is a leading expert on ADHD in children and adolescents. In a recent CAMHS study/article in acamh.org, he postulated about the high risk of suicidal ideation or attempts in this population:
There is a link amongst these behaviours in adolescents, up to one third of those with suicidal ideation have been found to go on to develop suicidal plans, and 33% of these make a suicidal attempt, and eventually it has been reported in the literature, according to this recent study, by colleagues, that 60% of those with a plan versus 20% of those without a plan make a suicidal attempt, and 60% of first attempts have been found to be planned.
So in terms of prevalence, clearly these figures highlight the clinical and the public health relevance of this topic. The cross-nation lifetime prevalence for suicidal ideation has been found to be around 9%, suicidal plans 9.2 and suicidal attempt 2.7. In terms of risk factors, of course there are several risk factors for suicidal behaviours which are related to several mental health conditions and other situations. However, if we look at the strongest evidence it turns out that mood disorder is really the main important risk factors, at least in developed countries. While interestingly in developing countries the risk factor with the highest, the strongest link with these behaviours has been found to be related to the presence of impulse and control disorders.
If you suspect you have symptoms of PTSD and/or ADHD, seek help. There are many experienced practitioners that can help. If you are employed, there is likely to be a neurodiversity policy within the workplace, and seek out help through your EAP, or local leads in those areas.
If you are a parent/carer of a child who you think has been misdiagnosed with ADHD, when in fact you feel may be trauma or attachment based, trust your gut instincts and advocate for your child’s needs.
Children and adults with ADHD and/or complex trauma and attachment wounds need to feel a level of safety, control, consistency and routine can help them manage throughout the week. Young people need key people in their environments both at home and school who they feel understand and empathise with them. When people have these experiences, having too many choices can feel overwhelming, providing them with limited choices feels safer. Building skills such as resiliency and facing the fear/anxiety anyways to develop that resiliency is key. A parent may feel the need to “rescue” the young person at every stage, however, that does not help the young person develop their own skills. Conversely, if the young person was ignored or emotionally neglected this can make the individual feel unsafe and not held. It can feel like a balancing act, but you can do this.
Individuals presenting with both ADHD and C-PTSD are at higher risks for suicide, long term health conditions such as diabetes, heart failure, COPD, cancer, etc. There are misconceptions in educational facilties, workplaces, and home environments that will be detrimental to the individual meeting their full potential in life. Often these individuals are misunderstood, resulting in feelings of abandonment, isolation, trouble with making and sustaining relationships, increased risks of suicide and substance misuse to self-medicate, and significant mental health complications later in life. However, one important last note is there is hope, and it is not a weakness to ask for help. If you know or are the individual with these issues, be an advocate, seek help and become more informed. Knowledge is power.